Thursday, October 4, 2007

SIDE EFFECTS!!

Believe me the worst thing that can ever happen to you in a relationship is THE BREAK UP!

Well I don't really know how women take it but. . . .

For men like me. . . .it's the worst. . .

I mean you really don't have a break up actually. . . .its not like. . "Forgetting and moving on".
No! It never is. . . .

I never forgot Pooja. . . never can I?

And Life is very cruel. . . it plays these stupid games on you. . .

Those beautiful eyes. . . . her graceful smile. . . .every single thing about . . came back to me. . .
She had become an addiction. . . . .
all those memories. . . all those beautiful days we spent together . . all those dreams we saw together. . . .
Naah! Can't just be broken. . ..
Hearts are not made of glass to be broken neither are just flesh and blood but much more. . . .
They say time heals all the wounds . . . .not these . . . not these I say!!!

Imagine how it would have been if even our lives would have buttons like REWIND and ERASE.

I want to go back. . . relive my past. . .

I miss you Pooja!!
Miss you. . . . .

15 comments:

harini..bored or busy said...

hey uve gotta come out of it man.. if u really liked her just think y u broke up n if it can b mended.. .sry 4 giving advice.. but thats all i can do... cheer up.. tc.. n all the best

matty said...

well humm thanx for showing some concern harini!!

C R D said...

wat u said is right...

if u really love someone, and by that i mean unconditionally, u can never really move on, there are some things in life that u get into with total dedicaton and commitment, and are not subjective to how the other responds. u cant just forget the one person u loved and find a replacement and move on. that would be opportunism and not true commitment

matty said...

yeah.. crd!
but...
my question is should i go for opportunism and wish for a new life(though it maynot be the best)
or stay behind .....
and wait....

Supernova said...

Ofcourse u cant forget everything u shared...how can u even expect urself to. U were lucky to share dos beautiful moments wid someone spl. Cherish dem n revisit dem as beautiful memories and move on wid life.

matty said...

yeah guess u r right dude!
move on.. thats what i say always to myself...
but.....

Cold & Silent..... said...

..maybe...da worst thing..at tht point wen u r in love....

bt wen it ends..its all over.... its da best thing dat could hapen....

Ashy said...

Hey Matty, mah first visit here. dropped here through Rohit s realms. Get over it and move on. All i can say is this. This is ur life and u gotta decide wot and how u r goin 2 live it.

All thhe best

matty said...

thanx ashy...yeah u r right

Nymphy said...

Hey I like your blog...

And what you say here is really true coz if you've really been in love with someone...madly, deeply, thee's no way you can forget it. And no matter what happenes, you will go on loving her forever.
And no matter what she does to you, no matter how hurt you are, you just cant bring yourself to hate her, and that's what really hurts the most...
Sometimes you feel you can just get rid of the pain by trying to hate but that just cant happen, and that's what hurts the most.
But I guess you need to move on eventually....however painful it is.

Dagny said...

I agree, there's nothing like "moving on", its just some eyewash.

Check out the song "My immortal " by evanescence, it is exactly what u r saying, n check out the lyrics as well

matty said...

@nymphy
very true dear!
all this moving on and all that stuff is just a cover up to hide ur feelings!!

@dagny
well thanx for that..
i will surly chk it out!

Mohan Kumar said...

you are right buddy

kartika said...

hmm wateva u've said is absolutely rite.. u can neva forget.. but u've still got memories.. moments tat u can cherish foreva.. luv u've shared.. moving on doesnt mean moving on with someone else.. its jus means moving on with memories...
lifez like a book.. u gotta read it till da end to know da best part!!

matty said...

@mohan
thanx dude

@kartika
well jus said what was in my heart...
thanx for understanding